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some people are just too free

am writing this emotionally and quite angrily.

 

A : eh… do u think that is her bf?
B : looks like it le..
A : wah.. she looks like that also manage to get a bf a?

C : eh.. u know what, yday hor, i saw XXX and YYY arguing at ZZZ…
D : seriously?? WOw.. i tot they are always very lovely
C : yala.. the guy summore bla bla bla

 

E : u know what, i saw this girl from faculty A studying in faculty B’s library today. with ZZZ summore..
F : really??
E : yala.. the girl even read newspaper in the library.. and she brought so little book to library..

* sweat, reading newspaper in library can be a problem to somebody*

 

all these conversation sounds very familiar right?
c’mon people.. enough of all these.
it’s exam period. u have nothing better to do than to bother about ppl’s relationship with who and who is it?

if someone hurt u before, personally, i think it’s still okay that u share with frens who can keep their mouth shut instead of spreading it to the whole world.. or do u just feel super nice when the WHOLE world knows that this guy / gal hurt u before?  

 

oh ya, some people just think that im retarded or insensitive when they are actually whispering to their frens about me right infront of me..

pls la, do i even know u? *if u know me in person, why not talk to me straight*
why u bother who likes me or not?
or, who i like?
*BGR issue is a very hot topic for most of us* 

and.. im open enough for u to come and talk to me face to face *nicely* what’s the point of u talking behind/spreading about someone’s wrong doing or things that pissed u off?
and u never get him/her to correct it? tell the fella straight la.. u people have the brain to come in to UM, but sadly, not the brain to deal with people. *childish*

some people, they have problem with people who is bbrave enough to stand up for what they believe in, or to voice out their poinst. Malaysia needs more people like this okay.
we need to voice out or thoughts at times in order to see improvement. 
weird, why r u observing so much about who the person is going out with/doing if u dun like him/her?

im not saying that i don’t gossip. I do, when i lost my self-control for not gossiping. but i always tell myself not to, especially SPREADING bad things about people. we are not here to judge, to advise maybe la.. 

lastly, i thank you all for whatever concern that u guys / gals have for me. but i prefer u come to me, and tell me right to my face, nicely. terima kasih banyak banyak.

April 20, 2009 - Posted by ivyhar | ANGER, gossip, thought | | 4 Comments

4 Comments »

  1. hey aunty.
    no offense but manyak um-ians really damn childish.
    sebab mereka dari matriks punya.
    u tak boleh ekspek ape-ape pun daripada mereka kan.

    Comment by Yuan | April 20, 2009 | Reply

  2. uncle.. takde la.. things like don’t happen only in UM actually, it happens everywhere.
    hmm..
    yala.. by right, i tak sepatutnya mind ttg apa yg mereka cakap. asalkan i tak buat salah boleh la.. tapi semalam i mmg emo.. =p

    Comment by ivyhar | April 21, 2009 | Reply

  3. i just listen but din spread. =P~

    Comment by no name | April 21, 2009 | Reply

  4. haha…i totally agree with ur view…that is true not only having in UM but all over the places… may b too free…. wat can we do to stop ppl to stop doin and thinking about that… is all without our range as human in this world… so most important is respect ourself and respect others and b ourself…i think tat is enuf… hehe!!!human sure wil b emo… if no emo then is not human i think…hehe!!!

    Comment by pass by .... | April 21, 2009 | Reply


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