Bad things happened and I asked God, why do you allow bad things to happen to good people and cause the one who is still alive so much heartache.. I have not been happy..
Then one nice friend of mine, show me  this video.. I though it’s really helpful..
Thank you. below is what he said.

Question :  All the much of human suffering is allowed by God for the good of mankind. There are sins to be much pain and suffering from which man who doesn’t benefit like natural disasters, accidents, that man have no control. How does one explain this from the perspective of God’s love.

When you made a mistake, it’s is not God’s fault, it’s your fault; when you blame GOd, you have double fault.

God permits all these to happen for 2 reason.

Firstly, God’ll not interfere in certain natural cycles.
So if you just eat anything you want, and have diarrhoea, you cannot blame God.
If you drive recklessly, have accident, you cannot blame God.
You cannot ask God, WHYYYY?? God would ask you WHY??

Secondly, God’ll work good in everything. So while you are in the midst of suffering, many times we awaken our soul. Many of us are dull and dumb before they suffer. but once they suffer, they are imediately enlighten. Then they realised that, in fact, they are make with honor.

If you have never been sick, you’ll not take good care of your health.

If you have never departed from your home into discomfort of another home, you’ll not treasure your home.
After you leave your home, you will be nicer to your mum. In the past you were rude to her. So God will permit some suffering for you so you’ll learn the lesson. However, too much suffering is not good. So, don’t live your live recklessly. God works in mysterious way.

If there a meaning to life without suffering?

The Bible tells us, when we are in the midst of suffering, God’ll be with us. And when we are suffering, God opens his ear to us. Even Jesus, Son of God came to earth, no exception for him. he has to go thru suffering. he has to learn submittion. Dont think that u r great person just because you come from a great famiy. If you are a wealthy, has a very smooth life, then your future is full of danger.
But if you are a person who can still stand strong after all the suffering, because we can only established ourselves thru suffering.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v9S4n29tDpw